He too nice dating
A guy who is nice will offer to pay but certainly won’t force the issue if you throw down your debit card and offer to split the check.
We are already anticipating the heat that we might catch if the date doesn’t go well, or if we gently decline your texted advance after the night is over.
I can just tell and trust me, I’m not wrong on this. In fact, it’s been turned into such a science, that you might want to take a look at it.
So he usually gets involved with psychos that latch on to him. I like my space and I don’t care if I never see you again. A guy in my life is “nice to have” but by no means a need. Check out more from one of the original masters, David De Angelo. But the attitude that plays the best with the most women is generally some version of “cocky and funny.” Of course, most women outgrow men who are so cocky that they are unable to forge bonds with a woman.
In other words, you have nothing about which to panic. Suitors will continue to line up well into your 30’s. Your independent “I don’t need anybody” attitude is counterproductive. For that to work you also need fun, interesting, stuff in common.
With it, you will get exactly what you’re asking for. If that is your goal, keep pushing away the nice guys and letting the bad boys take their shots. I’d never criticise a woman for dumping a ‘nice’ guy.